I'm TIRED of boys not making up their minds...?

Okay so this boy that I like alot, liked me, and we had a thing, but we didn't date, and so for a few weeks we acted like a couple, but we weren't official.. Then he tells me that he's just not ready to date& he thinks we should just be friends.. So I go on with that, but we still like eachother. Anyway, there's this dance coming up and it's a Sadie Hawkins. The girls ask the guys. I asked my guy friend, who I don't like AT all.. and he doesn't like me too go just as friends. I didnt ask the guy I liked because since he said we should just be friends.. I'm thinking it would be hard if we liked eachother at a dance.. anyway, he's mad now.. and I'm definately not telling my guy friend that I can't go with him. Any ideas?